Showing posts with label guest post. Show all posts
Showing posts with label guest post. Show all posts

Monday, March 18, 2019

What To Do When "Loving Your Body" Is Hard | Guest Post


I'm really excited today because a super super cool blogger is doing a guest post! She is always talking about being body positive and self love and she is just so inspiring to me. Today she has written up an awesome article about What To Do When "Loving Your Body" Is Hard, which I think is something we can all relate to. :)



Over 80% of women in America want to lose weight. We live in a culture fixated on looks, size, and constantly aspiring to be a smaller size. If you’ve ever struggled to love your body, you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault. From a young age we are fed lies about what “healthy” looks like. It’s incredibly difficult to shed years and years of myths that have been ruthlessly drilled in our heads.


So, what is diet culture?
Diet culture is the idea that :
  • Being skinny is the healthiest way to live
  • You need to lose weight if you don’t fit into society’s ideal look of a woman/man
  • Having “fat” is bad and means you are unhealthy
  • There is an ideal attractive body shape (ex. Slim thick)


If you want more information about diet culture be sure to check out my YouTube video all about it!


We see evidence of diet culture everywhere. Such as magazine having one body type, advertisements for weight loss, and the non-stop pressure to conform to a certain size. “Slim Thick” is the latest body “ideal” shape that has been pushed.


Diet culture pushes a cycle onto people that goes like this :


It’s safe to say that the diet industry profits off of making young women feel insecure.
On “Unearth My Roar”, it’s all about empowerment. Dieting promotes restriction, which is the OPPOSITE of uplifting. Here are my TOP THREE TIPS to feeling amazingly confident. Because, you’re worth it.


  1. What defines someone’s worth?
Think of three people you admire. And go through these line of questions.
  • What do you find admirable about ______?
  • Is it their body or their achievements/attributes?


For example, you could use Ellen, Oprah, Michelle Obama, or any other icons.
These people have become memorable because of who they are, and what they have done. Their body and looks do not define them. Even when you meet someone for the first time, your impression is based off of how their personality and nothing to do their weight.
So, your WORTH comes from the inside. And, your personality’s pretty dope.


2. Increase the body diversity into your life.
We are constantly only seeing one type of body. Thin & Tall. To break the cycle, we should expose ourselves to more than one body type. It shows that we come in all shapes & sizes and that’s something to embrace. If you’re interested, check out my Instagram to get more inspiration for starting on this journey of self love, and more recommendations for body-posi bloggers.


3. Taco bout it…
Yes! Talk about it over tacos, or pizza, or WHENEVER. Taco Tuesday, anybody? Seriously, talking about it is the first step to healing.


“There is nothing more powerful than vulnerability.”


If you think you’re alone, I promise you aren’t. Seek out a trustworthy friend, or a family member, or even a school counselor. Just be honest about your struggles and it will lift the weight off of you. Also, my DMs are always open. Sometimes you just need to have someone to listen. What step are you going to take today to love yourself?


Check out my socials for more body-posi & my personal self love journey. Thank you so much for reading!







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Friday, September 7, 2018

Who Are You? With Julia Plus Giveaway!!

An extra post for y'all this week! A super fun guest post so get excited. :)

   

So there we were, sitting at a table in the white and orange building of Whataburger.  People bustled past to their tables and orders were brought out on black trays packed with fries.  The air was filled with the delicious smell of good ole unhealthy fast-food. Our stomachs growled as we attempted, failing miserably, to wait patiently for our food.  At the next table over, a conversation not meant to be conversing in public pulled our attention to it, making us momentarily forget our appetites. A mom sat with her young son, who was. . . crying, quite unashamedly.  It was weird. They were having an argument about him getting his haircut, and they certainly weren’t debating it quietly.
“Why do you even want long hair?” the mom asked with evident frustration.  More droplets of salty water rushed from his eyes.
“I just want to be somebody!” he wailed.  
The end.

Aren’t I so good at this storytelling stuff?  
But that was a true story, well, at least the main part of it was true.  Now there must always be a reason for a story, or more specifically, a point.  
The point of this story?
Don’t argue with your mom about haircuts in public.

Oh, also, don’t cry in Whataburger - the poor workers may think it’s something they did, or the cooks may quit because they think they can’t even assemble a tiny hamburger right.  Or the people sitting near you might think you're weird and never forget you, not even eight something years later.

Fortunately for me and my future with stories that have points, those are not the only points of the story, unfortunately for you, those are not the only points of the story.
So yes, there is another point.  

In this present day and age, we as a society have a problem.  Our young people face a dilemma of not knowing “who they are”.  I’m not talking about them not knowing their names, or what family they belong in, I’m talking about them as individuals.  
They don’t know who they are inside, they don’t know where they fit in this life, they don’t even know their purpose of existing.  
This leads to many things, some fall prey to thoughts of worthlessness, some put on an act and go along with their friends and the world - like the boy, who wanted long hair because he wanted to be somebody.
Why did he think that would make him important?  Why did he think that would make him “somebody”?
Probably because the people at school had long hair, maybe someone he looked up to.  And so he thinks that if he looks and acts like those people who seem to “matter” that he will “matter” too.

There are a lot of people out there like this, people who are confused, who don’t think they’re worth anything, who think they’re nobodies.  
And maybe you are one of those people.  



You are Special:
Despite popular belief, you are not a random and purposeless accident of the universe.
You have been created by the great God of Heaven and Earth -- designed by His own hands!   He spoke into existence every creature and everything in existence and yet. . . . He didn’t just speak you into existence, he took the time to mold you:


You are created in the image of God!  And you think yourself not special?


You are created in the image of God!  And you think yourself not special?
God formed you, He made you!   And He made you special. Boys, you don’t need to have long hair, and girls you don’t need to slap on a bunch of makeup or get piercings or tattoos,  just so that you are “somebody”. You have been designed by the great I AM !!!!!!! How awesome is that?
Seriously awesome you guys.


You Are Somebody:
Maybe you feel like you're a nobody, maybe you feel like you don’t matter.  
So let me ask you, if we were in the day and age where a King ruled over us, and the King took notice of you, who happened to be a lowly peasant, and even made a point to know your NAME and not just your name, but everything about you, your likes, dislikes.  Wouldn’t you feel quite important? I should think so! I mean, I at least would be liable to get a big head.

Well, the KING of Kings, Someone WAY bigger and more important than mere earthly Kings knows your name, He knows your likes and dislikes, He knows everything about you - even down to the very number of hairs on your head!  Now THAT is something to get a big head over.
*Quickly checks head size*  




You Are Valuable:
If knowing that God not only made you and that He knows all about you somehow doesn’t make you feel like royalty. . . For those of you who still feel worthless, let me tell you are not worthless, in fact,



We didn't deserve it - you didn't deserve it, but He loved us so much - He loved YOU so much, that Jesus died in your place.  
God cared about you so much, He was willing to give up everything for you.
For YOU!
What’s your value?  - God’s only begotten Son, who is holy and righteous and above all else died for YOU.  For your life. Because God loved you so much, He deemed you worth the life of His only Son.  

You Have Purpose:
Since you aren’t a random, purposeless accident of the universe, you have a purpose.  A reason you are here. The Bible says



You have been made to bring glory to God, to serve Him, to be lights in this dark world.  You have a purpose - and that is to glorify our Savior and Creator.

Who are You?
So who are you?  
If you are saved if you have accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior and believe that He died and rose again for your sins.  Then you are not only a forgiven sinner. You are something else as well.

You will never find contentment and fulfillment if you seek your identity in this world.  If you base your value off of the world’s standards you will always come away disappointed and empty.  
The thing is, the world doesn’t matter!  
The world’s opinion does not matter, but God’s does, He’s the One who gave up everything for you:
He’s the one who made you, He’s the one who cares enough to know all about you, He’s the one who gives you purpose.

“But” says you and everyone else peeking over your shoulder (don’t bother looking, you’ll probably never see people actually looking over your shoulder, but trust me, you turn your back and anyone in your house is going to find some excuse to get behind you and pretend they’re not peeking over your shoulder) so y’all say,
 “it’s all great and everything to say I’m special and loved and have a purpose, but what does that help with knowing who I am?”

Never fear my friend! (or do, do fear because your family is frighteningly good at sneaking peeks at your screen without you finding out).  Remember I said you were something other than just a sinner saved by grace?
Guess what that something is!  
Oh fine, here’s a verse to help you out:


You have been adopted into the family of the Great I AM!  You are adopted into royalty! You are a daughter or son of the KING of Kings!  
That’s truly mind-blowing.

And you know that popular song, “Who Am I”?  In the song, it says these words: “And you’ve told me who I am .  . . I am Yours.”


Friend, that is who you are.  You are HIS. HIS child. You are a child of the KING.  

Who am I?  I am a sinner saved by grace, one of the redeemed, I am a daughter of the One True KING.  That is who I am, I choose to find my identity in Christ. Not the world, not in friends, I am God’s child.  That is who I am.

Now, who will you decide to be?  In who will you find your identity? God or man?

Who are You?

Meet the Writer: Julia S.


Julia is a 15-year-old born again Christian who believes it if the Bible says it it’s true, and a Bookworm who knows that words have the power to change the world. She juggles her small business, writing, and college while living on a farm in Texas with her parents, seven siblings and a ton of animals
Her goal in all that she does is to bring glory to God and to live a life lit aflame for Christ.  She hopes to encourage others to do the same.

Blog: Lit Aflame
Instagram: @litaflame

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Monday, July 24, 2017

Time- A Poem


So lovely :) 
Time is the culprit of everything. It changes appearances, wilts flowers, and brings life. We wish we could hold on forever, but that isn't how this cycle works. It takes away just as much as it gives. Sometimes, that is hard to understand. It causes pain, and even when it feels like it's the end of the world, nothing stops. The clock keeps ticking and soon, years pass by. In your heart, you can still feel a stain. A space that could never quite be filled. The chilly wind comes back, and I shiver. Even my jacket and your hands can't keep me warm. Red, orange, and yellow leaves drop by me and I seem to be living in a dream. Just for a moment then, my heart beat stops for just a second. I see a single brown leaf, and cup it with both hands. Night comes. Strangely, only one star seems to shine. It's been 30 years now. I still remember that stain in my heart that hasn't been completely filled, but I always think of everything I've lost. I can see it in my heart, all those faces, all that laughter, all those smiles. The first time I had grown up into something my parents could be proud of. Maybe, just maybe, it's not all over just yet. I'm happy just knowing that. 
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I hope that you enjoyed that poetry piece! It really means a lot to me because although I'm young and have yet to go over all these experiences, it just shows how the little things in life can make all the difference. You can always find a light in the darkness.

Sincerely,
Saanvi
a girl whose only language is music, whose soul is made of words, and who is trying to live, laugh, and love life
Find more here at her personal blog.

A huge thanks to Nabila for letting me guest post <3

Sunday, January 10, 2016

Guest Post




So lets welcome in Dani Jones *cue clapping*

Hi everybody!! I'm Dani, from The Dani Jones Blog! So, today I'm going to be  recommending different bloggers and blogs! (These are not in any order whatsoever). 
2. A Girl from A Girl Blog 
3.Sophie from A Joyful Corner
4.Everyone at Blogs By Kids
5. Shelby from Every Bit of Lovely
6. Nabila from Hot Town Cool Girl (yes you Nabila!!) 
7. Ines from Ines's Insights
8. Miss Internet from Miss Internet
9. Rukiya from Shine 'N' Elevate 
10. Luna and Tonks from The Potter Post
11. Yali from Yali's Lovely World
12. Fiona and Kasey from Two Girls
13. Nomi from Nomi verse
 So those are my personal favorite bloggers!! 
Bye Sincerely Dani
PS Don't forget to visit my blog!

She said mine *does happy dance*. Hoped you like her list of awesome bloggers and there blogs. Remember if you want to do a guest post for me you can see my page on it or you can email me at nabilaeve@gmail.com
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